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The Power of Concentration Part 1.3

With the right kind of training every man could be a success. It is really a shame that so many men and women, rich in ability and talent, are allowed to go to waste. Men that had lost their grip on themselves; that had through indisposition weakened their will; that through some sorrow or misfortune had become discouraged. At first all they need is a little help to get them back on their feet, but usually they get a knock downwards instead. The result is that their latent powers never develop and both they and the world are the losers. All they need to be shown is that there is within them an omnipotent source that is ready to aid them, providing they will make use of it. Their minds only have to be turned from despair to hope to make them regain their hold.

When a man loses his grip today, he must win his redemption by his own will. He will get little encouragement or advice of an inspiring nature. He must usually regain the right road alone. He must stop dissipating his energies and turn his attention to building a useful career. Today we must conquer our weakening tendencies alone. Don’t expect anyone to help you. Just take one big brace, make firm resolutions, and resolve to conquer your weaknesses and vices. Really none can do this for you. They can encourage you; that is all.

The man with grit and will, may be poor today and wealthy in a few years; will power is a better asset than money; Will will carry you over chasms of failure, if you but give it the chance. The men that have risen to the highest positions have usually had to gain their victories against big odds. Think of the hardships many of our inventors have gone through before they became a success. Usually they have been very much misunderstood by relatives and friends. Very often they did not have the bare necessities of  life, yet, by sheer determination and resolute courage, they managed to exist somehow until they perfected their inventions, which afterwards greatly helped in bettering the condition of others.

Do not expect that you will always have easy sailing. Parts of your journey are likely to be rough. Don’t let the rough places put you out of commission. Keep on with the journey. Just the way you weather the storm shows what material youare made of. Never sit down and complain of the rough places, but think how nice the pleasant stretches were. View with delight the smooth plains that are in front of you.Do not let a setback stop you. Think of it as a mere incident that has to be overcome before you can reach your goal.

 
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Posted by on April 25, 2011 in Power, Self Development, Uncategorized

 

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Ten ways to be a leader by Dale Carnegie

Everyone tells us to be a leader, but they never tell us how. Dale Carnegie tells us exactly how. If you haven’t read his book, you are missing a treat.

1.  Begin with praise and honest appreciation. Everyone is looking for affirmation and respect.

2.  Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly. Learn from the one minute manager, catch someone doing something good. So you can reinforce the right behavior

3.  Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. Your honesty and vulnerably is your strength.

4.  Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Help them learn the answer themselves.

5.  Let the other person save face. Give grace so you will have grace.

6.  Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Positive reinforcement goes a long way.

7.  Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to. A person’s reputation is as important as his name.

8.  Use encouragement. A word of encouragement can be life changing.

9.  Make the fault easy to correct. A good leader is one that can find solution to situation. There is no fault that can’t be corrected.

10.  Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest. Help them find the value and believe in the things they do.

Be the leader.

 
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Posted by on April 4, 2011 in Leadership, Marketing, Uncategorized

 

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